""Especially in the summer.There's no swimming, there's no camping, none of the things the family usually does.You can't have a lot of people around because of the fact his white-blood cell count [which affects his immune system] is low.""With the handbag gift purchase of a Wii for Christmas 2008 (""I just couldn't say no,"" Pat said) video games are now a significant part of the family's life away from the hospital, moreso when Joe's in it.The Evanses have eight children (two adult) and four systems - Wii, Xbox, PlayStation and GameCube - and Christmas 2007 delivered three more Nintendo DSes, one of which Joe brings to the hospital.
And during that first stay in September 2008, games became a talisman of life before the diagnosis.""In the ICU, they had this roll-around cart with systems, and you could pick games to play from it,"" Pat Evans said.""Even though there could only be two people in his room at once with him, I'd leave and bring one of the boys in, and they'd play.""When we fashion seiko came into the regular ward, here, it was just him and his brothers, and first thing, they wheeled him down here (to the games lounge), with his IV in,"" Pat says of his son, a typically shy youngster around others, but boisterous in the company of his family.
""Maybe it only lasted half an hour, but it was a big deal.""Video games represent such normalcy for kids that, Usinger says, when they don't want to play them while at the hospital, parents get concerned.But more typically, Usinger said, a parent's seiko watches instinct is to believe that a sick or injured child should be bedridden and spending all of that time recuperating, not playing.Helping Kids Cope""Sometimes kids need to be kids, so that their body can heal and function as normal,"" Usinger said.